Saturday, February 12, 2011

MTV-16 and Pregnant/Teen Mom and Skins

 Many people would agree that MTV airs far more reality shows than music videos these days, but many programs that they are playing have many parents up in arms. 16 and pregnant and Teen Mom followed by Teen Mom 2 have been on their second seasons and showing the hardships and challenges that teenage parents have to deal with. One day on my ride to school the radio station I was listening to was asking people to call in to give their opinions about these two series. Many people were saying that these shows glamorize teen pregnancies and don't really show them what it is like, or it shows that MTV will pay you to be irresponisble and a bad mother in some of the cases of the moms on Teen Mom.
  Some mothers blamed Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant of making it looking okay to get pregnant. Being a teenager I would have to disagree with this statement. I have watched 16 and Pregnant, Teen Mom and Teen Mom 2 and no where in any of those have I felt that they glorified being pregnant. If anything it shows how crazy and hectic some of these teenages lives are because they ended up getting pregnant before they were old enough. A lot of those women either do not have the financial ability or do not have the father to help them which makes it extremely hard for them. If there is a rise in teen pregnancy then maybe people should look more to the parents instead of to the TV shows, because even if there is something on TV if a parent doesnt't talk to their children about it and how to prevent such things, then they should be held responsible as well.
Another show that has even MORE controversary than Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant would be the show Skins. I have seen the commercials for Skins when MTV was heavily promoting the show before its series premiere, and honestly those advertisements were uncaptivating to me. I do not really have any friends that have watched this show, but from what I have seen of it, even if they did they probably would not watch it for long. MTV has been claiming that it is a show that represents what kids in high school are going through and what their lives are like, instead of other shows that gloss over the really bad things. I am sure that like with other MTV shows they have overeaggerated certain things, but at the same time it probably has some truth to it. Having not watched the show myself I can not be certain, but I wouldn't want to watch it necessarily either. Many mothers have been against the excessive drug use, alcohol, and sex that Skins displays in their episodes. MTV is close to child pornography  because of the underage actors that are on this show. Many mothers want this show off air so that their children will be saved and not exposed to it.

MTV will be a controversial TV station for years to come. They will have shows like Skins, and Teen Mom and 16 and pregnant around for awhile. I do not feel that they will change what they think will get viewers on their network, regardless of how many moms make petitions. Being a teenager I have watched some of these shows and I think that it is naive to assume that ALL teenagers will watch these shows and think, " Oh, it's on TV so it must be okay to do so." No, those who think that are the same teenagers who will be influenced by their friends to do certain things like drugs or drink before they are legal to. If parents are worried about what the show will do to their children, then they need to sit them down and make sure their children understand the reality of certain shows, and that not everything that is on TV is okay to do in real life. Parents should be parents, TV shows, songs, and bad movies will always be out there, it will be a reality in this world for many years to come, and instead of just trying to get rid of those shows, they should combat the behavior. Just because you get a show off the air does not mean that teenagers do not know about the possibility of what the show was about. It is not out of sight out of mind, the behaviors are still out there, so do something about THAT and maybe those behaviors will be lessened. As for me, I am going to continue to watch Teen Mom 2 and 16 and pregnant, but I know better than to imitate these behaviors that I see on TV.

I would love to hear your opinions on this topic. It doesn't have to be just these shows, or just MTV, but other shows that relate, and how you feel it affects those who watch it, if it affects them at all.

5 comments:

  1. I have read more review of Skins than I have talked to teens that have watched it, so I would be interested in hearing what people who have watched it say about it. One of my students told me his mom watched it so she would know what was going on in his world, and his response was "are you crazy mom?" I don't think he identified with the characters at all, and he is an open minded kid.

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  2. Yes, I have read some reviews where a parent asked their teen if they thought it related to life, and the teen said that it didn't and the actors were over acting and exagerating everything.

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  3. Personally I saw the previews for Skins and instantly said it looked like the dumbest show I have ever wasted thirty seconds watching to preview. Thats all I have to say about Skins

    Teen Mom and all that poo has been annoying since I watched one episode of the 'show'. I almost stopped watching MTV all together because of the 'success' stories MTV claims it has monitered. No, no no no no MTV is completely irresponsible. By airing this show the kids in no way have any chance of living normal lives, they will either be embarrassed to death of their parents or live in some delusional glory land where they think they are superstars. What MTV should have done is taken the kids away and adopted them off to actual parents who will not air their children on a television station that also hold such shows as "Jersey Shore" completely makes me angry. I feel bad for the kids, and I believe every 'mom' who has been on this show must realize that the crap they do on the show will be seen by their children someday.

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  4. UK Skins >>>>>>>>>>> US Skins. Just saying.

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  5. I completely disagree with any parent that thinks Teen Mom or 16 and Pregnant teaches girls that getting pregnant is okay. Not one of the girls on the show has made it look easy or fun whatsoever, so I cannot imagine anyone seeing teenage pregnancy as a good thing. Skins on the other hand is completely dramatic and over emphasizes "high school" life. I understand that drugs, sex and alcohol are problems in schools, but not to the extent of how it is shown in Skins. Maybe we are just sheltered, but I cannot relate to any of the characters. Parents should simply not allow their kids to watch these shows until they are old enough to realize that what you see on tv is different than how you should act in real life.

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